Let us get one thing straight right now!!! “Girl…. I quit my job to take care of my grandfather! I went from a $30/hr job to nothing to give my grandfather showers, clean feces, pick his nose ear and stray eyebrow hairs for him, along with picking him up off the ground when he fell.”
I have 5 kids. I choose to spend my time at the fields and tracks not out at bars and social gathering people throw. I don’t have money to take fancy vacations and post pictures all over social media so everyone can gush all over them in envy.
When I go shopping it’s for my kids 99.9% of the time. When I shop for me it’s on the clearance rack and it better be under $10. My tennis shoes… Yeah they are my oldest sons XC shoes from his 6th grade year (4years ago to the date almost). They are the most comfortable tennis shoes I have ever had plus I paid a fortune for them might as well get the wear out of them.
That’s right ladies I own 1 pair of tennis shoes!!!! That were handed down to me from my son 4 years ago….. GASP!!!!!
So what! I don’t look like a slob in public. In fact I get compliments frequently although it’s nice I don’t really care. My kids are what matters to me not who’s talking to me or what they think of me.
You have all your fancy stuff in your fancy house- that’s cool. You call to tell me about the money you spent on your vacation and your clothes and your kids and your husband. You know what screw you! Not very Christain to say but holy cow…… You don’t stop and think for 2 seconds do you????
I didn’t get here on my own. I didn’t produce 5 kids on purpose or quit my job to sponge off the state and federal government. My struggles are real. I have worried how I’m going to get milk, gas, bread, and toilet paper!!!! Some weeks have been better than others but not many.
HAVE YOU EVER STOPPED FOR 1MINUET TO THINK ABOUT THAT?????
You are my family. You are my friend. You are my neighbor. You are an aquantance. Do you ever look past yourself???
I am broke but holy moly I have soooo much. I am soooo blessed to have what I do. So when I can I help others even if it’s just with a couple dollars or a food basket. When I was working well I helped so many. Even you…. I gave you thousands of dollars before you married money. Funny how you forget or just don’t care now.
So yeah don’t invite me I’m not on the high snotty social wrung like you. I wouldn’t have came anyway. I’m not going to sit around and pretend my life is great and happy like you. That’s the irony. You pretend your happy for your social status and the social status of your family. You’re not happy I’ve listened to your nightly drunk fests bitching about your husband, your kids, your life. I sit and listen in silence you usually have to ask me if I’m still there. Lol you’re a spoiled brat and ungreatful and your miserable because you’re so neglectful of what you have. It’s sickening. I have sheer discust for the way you treat what has been given to you by God. You go to church and yet this is how you deal with God himself.
It’s hysterical you think you’re better. You can treat me and my children the way you do. Not horrible but just less than you….. Never the way you would treat your hot shot friends and family that’s for sure.
It’s alright though….. Go live that life. I am not a part of it and I am backing away from what I was intertwined in. It was harmful to me for so many years. It has taken me back to a very bad place and I won’t stay here sorry. Best of luck to you and yours….
Those of you reading this know it’s all true. You need to reevaluate where things are in your life. There are too many selfish and ungreatful people out there. You need to also think about what you will say and do to your audience before you put it on stage. Sometimes things have a lasting effect. Those effects are not always positive……: